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Dogs And Kids
by: Valerie Dancer
Dogs and kids can live together harmoniously, if the situation is properly
understood and carefully handled.Friendships between dogs and kids are both
wonderful and character building for the children.
Most dog bites inflicted on kids are by the family pet, or a neighbours dog. It
is not that the dog is aggressive, it is just that Mums and Dads do not
understand that children, and particularly babies, act very differently to
adults, and it is this unusual behaviour that upsets the dogs.
My own children were brought up with German Shepherds, supposedly well know as
aggressive dogs. The dogs were fairly anti-social to strangers but to the family
they were totally trust worthy. I like to think that it was because I taught the
kids to behave properly around and towards the dogs.
When dogs and kids are living together it is the kids that need to be taught to
treat all dogs with the greatest respect, and to understand that dogs are not
toys. As soon as babies are crawling they need to be told to be kind to the
family dog. Puppies are never too young to learn, neither are babies. If you
have just acquired a new puppy do not let it chew you or play nip, good training
for when it is a fully grown dog.
Dogs protect all things that they care about, whether that be the house, their
diner, the car, their bed, kids have to understand to leave dogs alone at
certain times or certain places. Some dogs are, by nature, herding dogs, so
these may chase a child if it runs away. This could excite the dog to attack.
Some dogs would get defensive if they are cornered or have some one standing
over them. Kids should be taught to not scream, cuddle the dog tightly or pinch
them. It should be remembered that as a dog gets older it could become less
tolerant, so the family dog that has always been so good with the kids suddenly
nips a child. Old dog get deaf so cannot hear a child approaching, so may nip
out of surprise. It is not the dog¡¦s fault!
Kids need to be told to never approach a strange dog, without asking permission.
If the dog is out without it¡¦s owner leave it alone.
To always approach in a steady quiet manor.
No teasing, yelling, hugging, pinching, pulling or chasing.
Always leave mothers with young alone.
Never try to stop a dogfight!
If you are approached by a strange dog, stand still; let the dog sniff you, no
wriggling fingers, put them in your pocket if you have one.
Do not stare at the dog, and never run away.
If the dog is barking or growling, slowly walk away, keeping the dog in view.
Be sure your kids understand the difference between your own dog and a strange
dog.
It is wise to never leave a baby or very young children alone together, no
matter how well you think you know the dog.
This all sounds a little forbidding but dogs and kids really can have lots of
fun together.
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